Unleash the Diva Within!
Author: Rondell Demmings

I am a diva! I tell my children, family and friends all the time that I am a diva. My son doesn’t know exactly what a diva is and instead of asking me what is a diva, he asks me questions like what makes you a diva? My response to him is that I was born a diva! The next question he ask is what makes you a diva? My answer is being me.

When you think of the word diva, you usually think of a woman with an attitude and bossy or in the music industry. Today the word diva is used to describe women who are in sports to CEO’s. What few women realize is that a diva is a women of strength and confidence. A diva is a woman who has gone through something to get where she is today. Being a diva is an attitude, where you demand respect and accepts nothing less.

I feel divas have been around since the beginning of time and I give Eve the title as the first diva. She was the first woman who had to endure pain and suffering in order to set the trail for other women. She was a woman who had to stand in front of God Almighty and admit her sin and later had to endure the pain of the death of a child at the hands of another child.

Look at Maya Angelou, this is a woman who had her first child at the age of 16 and worked as a waitress and a cook. Later in life she was a nightclub performer and began careers as a singer, dancer, actor, playwright, magazine editor, civil rights activist, poet, and novelist. This is a woman that has worked hard to be where she is now and the journey wasn’t easy for her.

Regardless of your age, your size or nationality you are a diva. If RuPaul or Elton John can be given the title of a diva why can’t you. Being a diva is about your attitude, your greatness and embracing your femininity.

There are four keys to unleashing the diva in you.

Key #1 is confidence. You have to have confidence in yourself and are willing to do whatever it takes to feel good about you. A diva doesn’t criticize her self and doesn’t allow others to make her feel bad about her. She is able to leave her past hurts and pains in the past in order to live a more blessed life in the future.

Key #2 a diva recognizes her greatness. She doesn’t have to get confirmation from others. She knows her talents and uses her talents to create a better life for herself.

Key #3 a diva knows what she wants and gets what she wants. This is where the strength and endurance comes in. If there is something that you truly want, you work hard to get it. You don’t let others or self doubt get in your way.

Key #4 a diva puts her self first. She makes sure that she takes care of herself mind, body, and soul. She takes the time to do things that are important to her and treats herself like the goddess she is.

On Thursday June 10th I would like to invite you to a free conference call, Unleash the Diva Within. During this call we will discuss steps to help you recognize the diva in you and provide tools and resources to get you on your road to bringing out the diva in you. For more information on this conference call please email me at Rondell@visionsilluminated.com or visit my website and sign up for my newsletter at www.visionsilluminated.com.






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Rondell Demmings refers to herself as a Vision Coach. She assist individuals in envisioning the life that they want to live and then taking the action to make that vision a reality. After living a life that was not authentic to her, she took steps to create the life she wanted to live. After eighteen years of Federal Employment she walked away from her good paying job to pursue her dream of being a coach. She specializes in personal growth, self-awareness and life transformation. Through her program “How to Get Your Groove Back” conducted on an individual or group basis, she motivates individuals to make positive changes in their life and to live a life that is authentic to self. She also assists home-based psychic/tarot readers in building clients and profits through marketing, training and consulting.

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