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There are many times when you are so concentrated on finding ways to learn about your mate and please them that you have completely forgotten about learning how to love yourself. The first focus you should have is yourself. In getting to know and love yourself, you will then determine whether or not you are stable enough to enter in a relationship. In order to be one with someone, you need to be whole on your own.
Let us begin with your physical being first, since that is what society looks at most. How do you feel about your physical appearance? Most likely, you will first point out the things you do not like about yourself. Well, you are not alone. Almost everyone automatically puts himself or herself down first when looking in the mirror. Have you ever stopped and observed the things you do like about your physical self? You probably have not. It is time to start doing that. The next time you look at yourself, find the physical qualities you like and accept in your being. Why should you not accept? It is YOU after all! Why are we so hard on ourselves? Well, the truth is, we were not born with the attitude of putting our self down.
When you look at yourself in a mirror, all you see is the outside, but who is that person looking back at you? What does that person like and dislike? What goals does that person have? What are his or her hobbies? When you look at people and want to get to know them, do you not ask yourself these questions about them? Why should you be any different? How could another being get to know you, if you do not even know yourself? What do you have to offer? Nothing if you lack the knowledge and information of who you are! This is why going through a self-check is important. If you have nothing to offer as far as your being is concerned, how can you have a relationship? You cannot!
Go back to your outer shell and the things you dislike about it. It is hard to do this without thinking about the ideas of society, but really get in touch with yourself and ask why it really makes you unhappy, despite of society. Do you feel out of shape? Are there areas you feel could use some toning up or sculpting? After asking those questions and figuring them out, then ask yourself this: Who is stopping you from doing those things? The answer is nobody. That is the beauty of being an individual. You are free to make your own choices about yourself. If you feel out of shape, set up an exercise program for yourself and change your eating habits. Do not use other subjects in your life as an excuse either (your job, for example). Many complain that they wish to do something, but time gets in their way for doing it. The fact is, if something really makes you unhappy and is that important to you, then you should make the time to get yourself back on track to happiness.
Not all negatives thoughts are bad. Sometimes, occasional negatives thoughts help us open doors for improvements in our lives, which is wonderful. It is always important to remember not to give those negative thoughts more focus though. Pay most attention the positive things about yourself and about the things that are going on in your life.
Take a look at how you feel when doing certain things, and if they keep you from feeling positive…get out of that situation!!! What you then need to do is start looking at the beautiful things about life. Spend time with people who make you feel good and feel good about themselves, of course! You could even read books that make you feel great after reading them, because after reading them, you will put them down and look at the world in a more positive way, with much positive thoughts. Only you know what truly makes you feel good about life and yourself, so start providing yourself with those things. Give yourself the make over your mind and soul deserve!
Getting in touch with your fears will also guide you into more self-realization and love. Not overcoming your fears will keep you living with a lower self-esteem and you cannot maintain a happy relationship with somebody.
Take pride in the things you have done and the things that you know and continue to learn. Never look at yourself as less intelligent as others or stupid for not knowing certain things. You are not Superman and neither is anyone else. No one can possibly know every single thing there is to know. What you know is what you took an interest in knowing and that is what builds your special character and you should be joyful about it. If you want people to respect you and consider you knowledgeable, then you yourself need to believe and realize that you are respectable and full of knowledge (and you are once you have looked for it and found it). When you feel good about yourself, you have a high self-esteem and when you have a high self-esteem, you shine and tell people how to treat you through your actions and behavior.
So before getting involved in a relationship, make an appointment with yourself and research the status of your self-health. Let the love you have for yourself come out and be with you. Make sure you do not set goals you know you will probably not accomplish, for it will only bring you down.
My name is Alina and I am a Relationship and Dating expert, working indepedantly and with Love-Sessions.com. I work with hundreds of clients, assisting them in understanding and accomplishing the relationships they want and deserve, as well as guiding them into learning more about themselves and achieving their goals. http://www.love-sessions.com
