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Rick Saldan is an excellent inspirational speaker who tailored the seminar to the needs of the individual students being instructed. This office thanks the Mayors Office of Information Services for having such a vendor.

 

Timothy K. Lynch

Office of Fleet Management

City of Philadelphia

 

 

Rick has a magical approach that provides a clear and concise message specifically designed to the needs of his audience. Rick will provide all the motivational magic you will ever need, propelling your organization to the next level of greater success.

 

Thomas Mulhern

Frontier Communications

 

 

Rick Saldan is a compelling and absorbing motivational speaker and magician.  I have been to five of his Motivational Magic presentations and it is amazing how he keeps our college audiences on the edge of their seats. A highly entertaining performer with great comedy flair. Rich content to increase students' productivity, peak performance and motivation. If you need an outstanding motivational speaker for colleges, Rick is definitely one of the world's greatest speakers and magicians!


Dr. Rob Gilbert, Sport Psychologist,

Montclair State University

 

 

Rick Saldan has the wit, wisdom and sorcery of a wizard. He has a dynamic personality, and all will enjoy his captivating stories, comedy and magic!

Dennis Slaughter
Credit Suisse First Boston

 

 

Rick Saldan delivers a first-class show! A pro in every sense of the word. Funny, unique, entertaining and polished.

Brian Letscher, Actor

Hawaii Five-O, NCIS, Cold Case, Law & Order and The Mentalist.

 

 

Rick Saldan is a wonderful combination of master magician, comic improviser and first class speaker. The audience loved his program, which was music to our ears. If you love celebrity motivational speakers such as Tom Hopkins, Dale Carnegie and Zig Ziglar, then you'll love Rick!

Dottie Burman, President
Burtley Productions, Inc.

 

Rick Saldan is an incredibly talented performer and motivational speaker with great insight. He shares many powerful motivational messages that will enhance your life for the better!

Jack Murray, President
Dream Illusions

 

Rick is one of the best inspirational speakers on the scene today. Funny, fun loving and highly energetic. If you want to make your next event into an extraordinary one, then invite professional speaker  Rick Saldan and his amazing  Motivational Magic.

 

Andres Lara, President

Inspiration Times Magazine

 
 

BEYOND MECHANICAL SEX
Author: Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.

It seems that the magazines and bookstores are filled with advice on how to be fantastic in bed. There are books on the G Spot, multiple orgasms for men, and hour long marathons in every conceivable position. Sure, some of this is fun to read and might briefly perk our stale repetoire of erotic fantasies, but come on, how many of us really have the time, energy or inclination to rack up the kind of sexual statistics these author say we should be achieving. However, for quite a few folks, achieving is what sex seems to be about. These goal-oriented individuals (and couples)count the climaxes as though making love is the same as accumulating orgasms. I guess these are the people who talk about "scoring."

I would like to suggest something quite different. I would like to suggest that the experience of "intimacy" is not the same as the performance of a sex act. (That's not to say that we can't be sexual and intimate at the same time, but intimacy should be our goal -- with or without arousal, with or without orgasms.) I've written a book on loving cunnilingus and that's certainly a sexual act (despite what some politicians might have recently claimed). I've written a book for premature ejaculators, and the purpose most men would read it would be to prolong the duration of sexual intercourse. I have just complete coauthoring a book for women who have not had orgasms or have had difficulty in reaching them, because orgasms are important.

My message, however, is that erotic sensuality and intimate sexuality involve a focus on the "process." and not the "goal." This is a "fail-safe" concept of sexuality, as the emotional bonding and the physical intimacy experienced is not evaluated and graded for how the encounter turns out -- it is in the journey that partners unite, and is it good if there are orgasms and it is good if there aren't!






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Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., Retired sex therapist after over 30 years of clinical practice. Author of "ORAL CARESS: The Loving Guide to Exciting a Woman," "MALE SEXUAL ENDURANCE: A Man's Book About Lasting Longer," and "PATHWAYS TO PLEASURE: A Woman's Guide to Orgasm' (written with Cynthia Lief Ruberg, M.S.Ed., sexuality counselor. E-mail address: oralcaress@aol.com and URL http://www.oralcaress.com



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