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Regain Control of Your Life!
Author: Roberta Van Riet
If you aren’t happy with any area in your life, it’s not because you can’t attract a mate, it’s not because you can’t handle money, it’s not because you didn’t inherit good genes and it certainly isn’t because you deserve to work in a dead end job. The reason you aren’t happy is only because of what you choose to believe about yourself.
If you are having challenges with money, it’s because you believe you don’t deserve more money than you have. Pure and simple. If you believed you deserved more, you’d have more. You may want more, you may need more and you may desire more, but somewhere deep in your subconscious is a seed of a belief that you don’t deserve it. In order to create your perfect life, your first step is to know what you believe to be true for you.
Our consciousness creates our reality. What we believe to be true is true for the simple reason that we believe it! How do you know who you “Being”? What beliefs are holding you back? Here’s an exercise I call “Interview with the Vampires”.
On a blank piece of paper write down a desire you’d like but have yet to manifest. Write it in the present tense, as if you already have it. For example: “I have a new car” or “I’m debt free”.
Underneath this desire without thinking or judging, write down every thought that has begun to zoom through your mind. Write them all down. Don’t think about them, don’t evaluate them and don’t try to change them into something positive. The goal of this exercise is to discover what you truly believe about your desire. You need to look at them all, especially the ugly, dirty, mean and nasty ones!
Stop when you simply run out of thoughts. If you haven't filled the entire page or your thoughts turn positive, start with another piece of paper and re-word your desire.
When you are done, take a look at what you wrote. These are your personal vampires. These are the beliefs sucking the life out of your dreams and desires and why you don’t have what you want.
Now take your list of vampires and circle all the ones that are of a similar nature. We are looking for Head Vampires, the ones that control all your thoughts about this desire.
After you have circled the Head Vampires, write them out in your journal or on another piece of paper. You want to expose these beliefs to objective truth. The more you become aware of them, the less power and control they have over your life.
Do you now see why you don’t have what you want? How could your desire ever manifest with these beliefs running in the background of your mind, unnoticeable, creating your life.
Now that you know what’s holding you back, here's a wonderful piece of good news. You don’t need to do another thing! Simply by being aware of these beliefs, you have begun to disempower them! Now you have the power to choose beliefs that are in alignment with what you want!
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Born to middle-class parents, Roberta Van Riet has been different from the get go! She met the man of her dreams at 18 and had her first baby at 21. She and her husband have been through welfare, personal challenges, huge financial challenges, relationship challenges and much more ... all at an age when most young adults are still living at home!
These challenges in her early life enabled Roberta to pursue a path of change - for herself and everyone she came into contact with. She became certified as a Professional Consultant, Trainer and Tele-Class Leader. She created her own consulting company, Creation Principle Productions. But that was not enough! Not one to sit on her laurels, she also wanted to help change the world and society in general! While working with a particularly challenging client, Roberta wrote “The Creation Principle: A Formula You Must Know to Effectively Change Your Life!” This book contains the formula that literally ‘bonked’ Roberta on the head when she asked for information on how to help change lives! It was the start of a new path for Roberta and everyone she came into contact with and the rippling effects are being felt worldwide!
With so many wonderful achievements, Roberta declares that her two greatest are the 22-year relationship she has with her husband and the two wonderful children they have been blessed with. She is living proof of her motto--"You CAN regain control of your life and your reality”!
For more information, go to: www.thecreationprinciple.com
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