Paradigm of confidence
Author: Samia Aleem

PARADIGM OF CONFIDENCE

Paradigm is a word for a theory, a belief and a map. It is a perspective of a thing. The way we look at things. It is the way we see things.

Confidence is also in a way to look at things. The difference of a confident person and a non-confidence person is the way they look at things.

Confident people look at the opportunities; non-confident people look at the missed opportunities. Confident people look at their goals and what they can do about it, while non-confident people look at things and tell themselves that they cannot do anything about it right now because of their lack of confidence; because right now they are too busy looking for confidence that they cannot do anything else. They don’t use their talents because they are waiting for their confidence to come first and then their abilities. As a result they keep Standing While confident people grasp every opportunity to use . They are focused on the things that they can do.

So the basic difference is in their perspectives. Now the question is what is the perspective of a confident person or in other words the paradigm of a confidant person,

The paradigm of a confident person is a map. It is a road. On this road everywhere with every step that person becomes more confident and confident. The road is straight and clear. It has no junk of any sort. It has no doubts lined around. The purpose is clear. The destination is within sight. Which is confidence.

Confidence is not a goal for him. It is a destination. It is a path a journey. They don’t say to themselves they have to be more confident. They say they are moving towards confidence. The journey itself is confidence.

The same way you’d say about going to New York. Those people who have a goal to go to New York will view it differently then those who will be going there. They would be on the way. They won’t be waiting. They won’t be dreaming. They would be going. And they would obviously be prepared for it as well. They might be armed with a map to keep track of the road. They would make sure that they stay on the right road.

The paradigm of confidence is like a map of New York. Everything is right their on the map where it should be. There are no sidetracks. Just simple plain road. No self-created hassles. Infact, hassles are the last thing visible they are as a life cannot be cleaner then that.

Then there is this sweet sense of brightness and new light in which you see yourself and your life. This awesome feeling that things change every moment with us, and they always change for the better. With this feeling there also comes a feeling that says you can change these things that are bothering you. You are mighty. You are powerful. You are amazing. All these things seem to grow with every step and every breath.

Paradigm of confidence is a gift for people. It is the proactive and positive outlook and these perspectives emerge naturally. They don’t have to be forced out of you. You don’t have to beat yourself up because they are the natural by product of your paradigm. They are always handy and forthcoming. Ever present.








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a person who has struggled with confidence all her life and who sincerely wishes to help

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